My kids really helped me understand in an unfussy way that work and play are the same thing.
(Do economies of scale pervert this, or is it shame?)
Clean things should be messed up; messy things can be ordered;
Less language, probably.
If it’s not at least a little bit funny it’s probably not any good.
You have to care a lot and then get out of the way and let them do it.
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The scam of the whole thing is that I’m your student and because you have to teach me, you have to learn it.